I know intimate partner violence (IPV) is not a pleasant or easy topic to think and talk about, yet it is the only way forward. When you think about IPV, I suspect most people first think about physical violence. Yet, did you know that psychological violence is the most common form? IPV, in all of its forms, is a serious public health issue, with an estimated more than 30% of women in the US experiencing it. So, as a yoga teacher, I think it is vital to learn how the practice of yoga might support (or harm) female survivors, as a simple yoga class of 10 might have up to 3 or 4 survivors attending.
It is important to acknowledge that not all yoga styles and/or teachers might be appropriate for such survivors. More and more, in the healing arts, a concept of ‘trauma-informed’ is emerging. However, simply taking one course on trauma-informed medicine does not make a trauma-informed provider. In fact, I have learned of many stories (both as a yoga teacher and a psychotherapist) where a teacher or provider claimed to be trauma-informed and actually activated the survival response in the encounter! Therefore, it is critcal to ensure IPV survivors experience the practice of yoga in a way that ensures physical, emotional, mental and psychological safety.
The consequences of psychological IPV include, but are not limited to, depression/suicidal ideation, anxiety, PTSD, low self-esteem, somatic complaints and substance abuse. So, as a holistic healer, I have come to view these conditions as symptoms of trauma and not diagnoses. As such, I am able to offer a different perspective that validates a person’s lived experience and honor their needs on their healing journey. There is much research on how yoga can reduce particular symptoms of trauma, yet more research is needed to clarify the distinct aspects of the yoga being offered and how, specifically the practice is trauma-informed.
I was very excited to come across a very recent research study from Exhale to Inhale in NYC that did just that! This study included 526 female survivors and data was collected over 3 years and across 66 domestic violence agencies. It clearly describes what makes the yoga trauma-informed and the target symptoms of stress, somatic complaints and self-efficacy. This study showed that trauma-informed yoga is a capacity-building intervention with female IPV survivors.
To read more, click the link below:
5 Intention-setting Ideas for Living a Long, Healthy Life!
/in Newsletter/by LindaSince I have been unsuccessful in discovering the fountain of youth, I decided to watch a documentary on blue zones. It inspired me to share the growing body of evidence that is embodied by the people living in these places. If you are not familiar with blue zones (and you have Netflix), consider watching Live to 100: Secrets of the Blue Zones. If you prefer, you can read more here, where the research of Dan Buettner, Blue Zones founder, is offered on the original five blue zones he identified: Okinawa, Japan; Sardinia, Italy; Nicoya, Costa Rica; Ikaria, Greece; and Loma Linda, California. These blue zones are regions around the world where people are known to live longer and healthier than the global average.
By adopting specific lifestyle habits, instead of searching for the elusive fountain of youth, individuals can potentially increase their chances of living longer, healthier lives.
Below are some intention-setting ideas drawn from the lived experience of people from these blue zones:
5 Intention-setting Ideas for Self-Certified Foodies
/in Newsletter/by LindaNational Culinary Arts Month!
Celebrating National Culinary Arts Month can be a delightful experience, whether you’re a food enthusiast, a professional chef, or simply someone who appreciates good food. Celebrating National Culinary Arts Month is all about indulging your love for food and exploring the rich tapestry of flavors, techniques, and cultures that make up the culinary world. Whether you’re cooking at home, dining out, or learning something new, enjoy the journey through food!
Below are some intention-setting ideas to make the most of this culinary celebration:
5 Intention-setting Ideas for Summer Self-Care
/in Newsletter/by LindaSummer is Upon Us!
Ayurveda or Ayurvedic medicine is the traditional, native approach to physical, mental and emotional health and well-being in India that has been practiced for 5,000 years. It includes practices such as yoga, meditation, chanting, herbal medicine, and dietary changes. It is a natural, holistic, preventative approach to illness that is centered around the idea that disease arises from an imbalance or stress in the mind and/or body. And who doesn’t experience those at least once in a awhile in their lives?
The word “Ayurveda” is derived from Sanskrit and means “science of life.” It is grounded in the belief that everything is connected and thus, our health relies on maintaining balance and harmony within ourselves and with the world around us. When we experience some sort of imbalance in our experience of life, Ayurveda guides us to try lifestyle changes and natural remedy options to support that balance and harmony.
Ayurveda also has routine seasonal suggestions for all of us to align with the energy of each season. Summer is “Pitta” season in the northern hemisphere, where Pitta and its qualities of hot, sharp, dry, and intense, increases in nature and within us. If we don’t pay attention and these qualities build up within us, we experience an imbalance and create an environment for disease. So Ayurveda guides us to look at these qualities and use the exact opposite qualities to support balance.
Below are some intention-setting ideas from this traditional practice for you to consider exploring for yourself to balance the natural increase in Pitta and find a healthy seasonal rhythm during the summer months:
5 Intention-setting Ideas to Honor Mental Health
/in Newsletter/by LindaMental Health Awareness Month
We have been taught to smile through pain and to simply say “Fine” or “Good” when someone asks us how we are doing. It has been modeled to us to wear masks and not show anyone what we are truly feeling. Well, it’s okay to not be okay! And you are not alone. According to the National Association of Mental Illness (NAMI), 1 in 5 adults live with mental health challenges and 1 in 6 children and adolescents experience a mental health condition each year.
Below are some intention-setting ideas for cultivating compassion and understanding to support mental health and for reducing stigma when our mental health is challenged:
As an intervention, what impact might yoga have in the lives of female survivors of intimate partner violence?
/in Yoga/by LindaI know intimate partner violence (IPV) is not a pleasant or easy topic to think and talk about, yet it is the only way forward. When you think about IPV, I suspect most people first think about physical violence. Yet, did you know that psychological violence is the most common form? IPV, in all of its forms, is a serious public health issue, with an estimated more than 30% of women in the US experiencing it. So, as a yoga teacher, I think it is vital to learn how the practice of yoga might support (or harm) female survivors, as a simple yoga class of 10 might have up to 3 or 4 survivors attending.
It is important to acknowledge that not all yoga styles and/or teachers might be appropriate for such survivors. More and more, in the healing arts, a concept of ‘trauma-informed’ is emerging. However, simply taking one course on trauma-informed medicine does not make a trauma-informed provider. In fact, I have learned of many stories (both as a yoga teacher and a psychotherapist) where a teacher or provider claimed to be trauma-informed and actually activated the survival response in the encounter! Therefore, it is critcal to ensure IPV survivors experience the practice of yoga in a way that ensures physical, emotional, mental and psychological safety.
The consequences of psychological IPV include, but are not limited to, depression/suicidal ideation, anxiety, PTSD, low self-esteem, somatic complaints and substance abuse. So, as a holistic healer, I have come to view these conditions as symptoms of trauma and not diagnoses. As such, I am able to offer a different perspective that validates a person’s lived experience and honor their needs on their healing journey. There is much research on how yoga can reduce particular symptoms of trauma, yet more research is needed to clarify the distinct aspects of the yoga being offered and how, specifically the practice is trauma-informed.
I was very excited to come across a very recent research study from Exhale to Inhale in NYC that did just that! This study included 526 female survivors and data was collected over 3 years and across 66 domestic violence agencies. It clearly describes what makes the yoga trauma-informed and the target symptoms of stress, somatic complaints and self-efficacy. This study showed that trauma-informed yoga is a capacity-building intervention with female IPV survivors.
To read more, click the link below:
5 Intention-setting Ideas to Celebrate Diversity
/in Newsletter/by LindaCelebrate Diversity Month!
Celebrate Diversity Month takes place each April. It was initiated in 2004 to recognize and honor the diversity of the world around us. It is a time to recognize and understand our differences, be it gender, race, ethnicity, faith, sexual orientation and other factors while honoring the common essence of humanity. By appreciating our similarities and differences, the month aims to encourage a deeper understanding of others, regardless of who they are or how they live. It’s also an opportunity to increase diversity in the workplace and various academic fields. Diversity Month pushes us to seek this knowledge so that we can build a tolerant world that welcomes everyone, regardless of who they are or where they come from. — Source: National Today.
Below are some intention-setting ideas for celebrating human diversity:
5 Intention-setting Ideas to Support Building Trust
/in Newsletter/by LindaIf you have difficulty trusting others, you are not alone. And, it might have more to do with a struggle to trust yourself.
Take a moment and think about why you trust someone else. Did it happen over night? Did it happen in response to one interaction? Do you have faith in their abilities? Do you feel that they care about you? Do you feel they were being authentic with you?
Trust can be risky! Trust is required for a healthy relationship and before we can have a healthy relationship with another, we must work on having a healthy relationship with ourselves. If I were to ask you to remember a time when someone broke your trust, I imagine that most of us can quickly remember a time. But if I were to ask you to remember a time when you broke your own trust, would it be so easy to recall?
According to an article in the Harvard Business Review, trust has three core drivers: authenticity, logic and empathy. Therefore, trusting ourselves requires us to connect to our authentic selves, have compassion for ourselves, and align our choices with what we know to be true for ourselves. Unfortunately, many of us struggle in this space due to the fear of being judged by others (AKA the need for approval by others) and/or the fear of disappointing others.
If you find yourself caught in this common human struggle, below are some intention-setting ideas for building trust in yourself:
5 Intention-setting Ideas for Individual Growth
/in Newsletter/by LindaCelebrating the Month of Love
When we think about the month of February, it often brings up thoughts of Valentine’s Day. It is also a month to honor American Heart Month and Black History Month. And this year happens to be a leap year as well!
I believe what ties all of these occasions together is an opportunity for individual (mental, physical, emotional) growth. When world challenges loom so large, we might feel helpless or even hopeless, which hurts our hearts. Yet, if we create space to turn inward, to look at what needs tending in our own gardens, whether our physical health or weeding out old beliefs that are choking our ability to flourish, then we can find some peace in knowing that our individual growth will contribute to the evolution of the collective consciousness of the world.
Below are some intention-setting ideas for consideration to support your journey inward this month:
5 Intention-setting Ideas to Sharpen the Skills of Connection
/in Newsletter/by LindaHappy New Year!
Almost a decade ago, when I was contemplating what to name my business, I knew that I wanted the word “connection” in it because of my personal transformation from connecting with my authentic self and then connecting with others. Making connections, and maintaining the health of those connections, continues to be at the top of my new year intention list.
Neuroscience has shown that humans are wired for connection. It is a basic human need that is necessary to thrive. However, that doesn’t mean all of us experienced healthy role models on how to stay connected to our authentic self and/or initiate, foster and deepen connections with others. For those of us that might think we are not good at connecting, not all is lost. Connecting includes skills that can be learned, practiced, and refined over time. It is definitely worth your time and effort!
Below are some intention-setting ideas for exploring and enhancing the skills that support connection:
Can neurofeedback reduce the effects of another symptom of trauma – gambling?
/in Neurofeedback/by LindaAs I like to quote renowned addiction expert, Dr. Gabor Maté, “Not all traumatized people become addicted, but all addicted people, including those addicted to opioids, were traumatized in some way.” He has also stated “Addiction is only a symptom, it’s not the fundamental problem. The fundamental problem is trauma.” This message is very powerful and supports efforts to destigmatize people who struggle with addictive behaviors of all kinds, whether the impulse to soothe is temporarily satisfied by alcohol/drugs, exercise, shopping, eating, caffeine, tobacco/nicotine, internet gaming, sex, TV, social media or gambling. My adaptive behavioral addiction to chronic toxic stress as a child was eating and it did soothe me in the moment, although not for very long. Since the diagnosis of gambling addiction was added in the 5th addition of the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-5), research has been able to focus on treatments that might be helpful to healing.
My own healing journey included both talk therapy along with yoga, to reduce the internal conflict and stress I felt and to understand why I felt it in the first place. The contemplative practices in yoga created space in my mind and body to process through talk therapy with more ease. I wasn’t aware of neurofeedback or non-invasive brain stimulation at the time, although it has been around for over 50 years. I think it was due largely to the pharmaceutical marketing push to treat mental health challenges that created our current infatuation with psychopharmacology and moved any non-pharmaceutical options into the shadows for a long time. I’m grateful neurofeedback is making a strong comeback as it does not have the many complex side effects prescription medications cause in both the body and mind!
As we begin to embrace addictions, both chemical and behavioral, as natural adaptive behaviors to chronic toxic stress from adverse childhood experiences, we can begin to expand our treatment options beyond Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and prescription medications. Neurofeedback can expand our window of tolerance (like yoga did for me) to create space to process and release the pain and shame emanating from our past with more ease and without drugs. Although preliminary, research is beginning to show that neurofeedback can significantly reduce the cravings experienced by people struggling with a gambling addiction. If you, or someone you love may be in this space, it is my hope that you might consider neurofeedback as a tool to support the journey of healing.
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